New couples that are entering swinging for the first time will go through many different feelings.

No matter how prepared you may feel you are, it is just a fact that all the new experiences with other people will make you feel:

• Happy
• Sad
• Horny
• Sexy
• Jealous
• Scared
• Intimidated
• Excited
• Angry
• Anxious
• Adventurous

The more you learn about the lifestyle and discuss all the possibilities before jumping in will benefit both of you and the first few experiences in the lifestyle will be much smoother.

That is why you read about communication being the key ingredient for couples enjoying the lifestyle.

When you share each other in swinging, you are sharing your inner most feelings and desires with other people.

Here is a very important tip for those of you that are feeling upset or jealous watching your partner get sexually active with a different partner for the first time.

If you are unable to get your focus away from the enjoyment your partner is having, it is important that you join in and share the excitement your partner is enjoying by making it a threesome.

It is great if there is a foursome going on, but in a number of cases, one partner will get active before the other and some people can get very jealous quickly.

Ask yourself if you would get very upset seeing your partner have sex with a different partner, if this does not excite you in any way, you need to take smaller steps into swinging with such things as erotic dancing, light fondling, soft swinging

Swinging is not for every couple.

Swinging is best enjoyed by couples who have an equal desire to play sexually with other couples.

When couples have an unbalanced desire for sex or one partner is pushing the other into the lifestyle, the results are often very upsetting for both partners.

When couples have a balanced libido, it is much easier for both of them to share themselves with others with a great sense of excitement.

A big factor of success has a great deal to do with how well the couple communicate and share ideas.