Do you get jealous if your partner is looking at the opposite sex?

If you do, how do you think you will handle seeing your partner have intercourse or play sexually with a new partner?

For the most part, jealousy is very healthy, but too much of it can be a huge problem in the swinging lifestyle.

The biggest secret of handling jealousy is to discuss all the possibilities that might come up and usually do in the swinging lifestyle.

Many couples think that they are not jealous until they see their partner acting or enjoying themselves in a totally different way than they have done with you before.

There are a few simple and logical reasons why this happens.

• Most couples get involved in swinging after being together for some time or many years.
  
  
• When couples only play with the same partner for many years, things can get very routine and they start looking for something to spice up their good relationship...thus...by entering the swinging lifestyle.
  
  
• As with anything new you want to put on your best side, you want the new partner to be totally excited with you and you are excited about letting your hair down and having the time of your life!
  
  
• So many couples are so excited during their first experience with a new partner or couple that they let many of their inhibitions loose and even try many new things that are daring and exciting that they may never have tried with their partner.
  
  
• Many couples have never had any other sexual partner in life, so the experience of a new cock or new pussy is very exciting, because every cock and pussy are different.

This is what makes the lifestyle so much fun.

If everyone was the same, life would be boring.

Variety is the spice that makes swinging so enjoyable.

Someone may:

• hold you different
• kiss you different
• or make you have orgasms in different ways than your partner of many years.

Be willing and accepting of the new behaviours your partner will be engaged in, because both of you will be enjoying and experiencing new things together and will share those experiences when you are both home alone.

Almost all couples experience a heightened sexual drive for several days or weeks after a new sexual encounter

Would you be upset:

• Seeing your female partner finding new playmates that are crazy over her?
• or seeing your male partner joining in with this new female playmate?

Is it too much for you?

You need to find your comfort level for jealousy.

Swinging is done at many different levels of play and there are many different clubs out there with different activities.

It is very important that you discuss all the possibilities.