Ladies do you find yourself joining couples just to get the lady side of things?

Female half of cpl here...not many ladies r interested we find...donno if they r 2 shy?..but we have been looking for a f 2 join us on many sites..&..not 1 response...wonder why?

Yes, I agree....I am the female half of a couple and am very bi.  We find it very difficult to find a single woman as well.  I like being with the other guys but the main reason I am into swinging is the other women.  I so enjoy being with the other women and watching my husband with them.  I guess most of it is that I haven't had any guy as good as my husband!  Hope he doesn't read this he might get a big head, lol

   Female here of a cpl!!! I can honestly say the Bi curious side of me only kicks in in the heat of passion as in 4 in play!! :) Or on that rare occassion I will see an appetizer I'd like to taste. The men know how it is!!! While in the bed as well as me!! If it's appealing go ahead and feel it, lick it. :D Ourselfs as cpl do seek Bi ladies when in search of cpls and straight cpls as well. But it is very hard to find the right match when engageing in other cpls where the fem is Bi. We have found most cpls we meet the lady says Bi. But has no Bi tendancies in bed. Alot do not wish to have any body contact with other Bi ladies in a 4 some. Why they seek a Bi lady's is beyond me!!   We have met a few single gals :)who are Bi and willing to play with us as 3 and we have became great freinds with lottssa repeats.

But hell it never hurts to have a different flavor from time to time.

As for my male half he has experienced me and my gfs during play. :) Had us all to himself too.  As for me I do like men as well!!!  Thats why it's allways great having 4 reving the engines.

I find in most if not all cases when a couple is looking for a bi femail " for her" they are really looking to get some screwing for him and he is still too insecure to play the swinging game ( share his wife) he wants to have his cake and eat it too  . Well fellas guess what were onto ya and if you dont want to share her thats fine but the odds of finding a height and weight proprotinate woman thats not a head case is rare ... \

good luck

Kork

Female half here as well. 

I agree with Kork in her statement that often the guys want to mess around with another woman but not share their mate with another male. 

Also agree with Staxx that you have to be patient and persistant in your search. 

It can be challenging finding a couple where you're attracted to both the male and the female so you have to be flexible.  We've met a couple where we ladies could hardly keep our hands off each other but there was no attraction by either of us towards the opposite male.  So we agreed that we ladies would play, the guys would watch and when we were finally satiated we'd finish off our own husbands.  Not perfect but better than staying home watching Wheel of Fortune. 

I have found that some men pose as a couple, and then go on to say "she changed her mind, so it will just be one on one"

Anyone who lies from the beginning is setting themselves up for dissappointment, what happened to honesty?

Also I have run into many guys that when they find a bi woman they will assume that she will hop into bed with anyone...as far as I am concerned it is all about chemistry, no desire = no chance

Wylde

Male half of couple her with bi lady...my lady only wants another woman...i am not interested in screwing another woman but to see her enjoy the pleasures of having another woman or women,,,as for all men wanting some and not sharing with the other womans man?...wrong...have always said it would turn me on to watch her with another guy...but...she has NO interest...so some of us men are very eager to share...cheers

licks

why is it typical? have you said it before?...trust me lolli, if you knew my woman you would know she can talk for herself and if u read her profile she says what she wants there but is constantly hit on by men you cannot read the english language...oshawababe is my gal and we/she has been searching on this site since it was first started and either the women are fake profiles or not what she wants...any other illiterate men wanna read the profile? lol

stray lolli? lol..hell no...we have each others passwords...nothing is hidden...we have total trust in each other..i am secure in all I do and so is she...and she is the queen of blocking people...all single or married dudes are banned :)...oneday she'll find her ultimate female playmate

Oh and my lady does talk for herself...I just get a laugh out of people assuming they know whats going onand when i read these comments I have to say what i feel...toodles...end of this convo