Okay, so as my profile say's I'm pretty new to this...So I was wondering, what do you guys think is good for a "first date" or the first time you meet someone you've met online? Coffee is the first thing that comes to my mind, but not everyone drinks coffee and it's a little overdone for the whole first meet thing. Let me know what you think :D

LOL your post sounds like your on a vanila dating site like plenty of fish. This site is about meeting potential sex partners, and in your case there is a slight chance you just might find the woman your wanting. When we meet prospective party partners we like to go for a meet at a strip club as it has the right kind of atmosphere. Also if we get to, being a little touchy feely and are seen, no one realy cares. It's fun to see how other patrons pretend not to see whats going on.

where your going to meet someone is the last thing you should be worrying about....the strip club sounds like a good idea , we have met people at the beach and at house parties, much better than going for coffee (very confrontational 1 on 1) at a party you just move on and chat with someone else, your odds are much better. 

but isn't it hard to get to one of those parties in the first place unless you know people already involved in the lifestyle?  for some the only way to get initially involved is through the internet contact

True....but check the "events" section.... we have met alot of couples and interesting people thru house parties the thing is you have to go to them to have fun....networking is always good... some people only play on site some only play off site etc. etc.

 swinging parties are so laid back some nights it's just about laughter and funny stories other nights I've witnessed things i'd  never would see @ home...

there just happens to be a swinging house party this Sat in London...

we are going to try going to club vibe on sat this weekend, hopefully we'll get a chance to meet some nice couples through there....figure if we can make it out to some clubs we can meet up with some like minded couples that way and maybe make ourselves known to get invited to house parties from there

Actually getting out of the house to attend a club (any club), a house party, a just drinks or coffee meet and greet or whatever is the very best way to meet real swinging people....and your best chance to have fun...if nothing happens, at least you got out of the house for the evening...so, it's no loss...

We have also found parties to be the best place to meet people. Our time is limited, so we don't have the time fr endless "coffee" dates. Go to a house party. talk to someone, if yout hit it off great, if not no big deal. Just move on.