Hi there,

I have been a member for about 2-3 months and I had no luck finding a play mate. I have replied to almost all the single ladies within the Toronto area, and no body seems interested in some fun times with me.

Can some please tell me what I have been doing incorrectly. I would like to hook up with 1 lady and have some fun times with her and NSA.

I am looking forward in hearing from somebody soon.

For one your profile has next to no information, two pics one of a bus the other a dick, your in competition with thousands of other men here who all have a pic of a dick, as I do, not the most original way to get a women interested they are swamped by pics of dicks. One if your single why no face pic, not like your wife would care as your single right.

OHoh, maybe your not single, so your one of one hundred thousand men on this site trying to cheat on their wifes and being dishonest about it, do you really think women are that hard up???

Sorry but you seemed to ask for an honest reply.

Perhaps you may have better luck on POF or AFF..

This site is an excellent place to meet people.  Swinger events are the better place though.  As you are from Toronto, may I sugest Club M4?  I've never been there, but ms_g_licious seems to be promoting it well.  People who do, play.  People who don't, waste time chatting & waiting.  Get out and play on-premise to meet swingers.

If you drive down to London, I have an active on-premise club with great group sex.  Nothing one-on-one though.  Very much group. Sex is that easy at an on-premise swigner club.  You still have to ask and be polite though to the ladies.  Also, you have to remember swinger parties and events are not a "dating service".  Don't go there expecting to fall in love.

As a positive comment, if you are MALE then that implies you have a cock.  Right?  Do you have to post your cock to prove you have one?  Post your buns.  Post your bedroom.  Post your backyard.  I think all ladies know what a cock looks like.  Are you able to give ladies multiple orgasms without using your cock?  That is a selling point.

At my bi-swinger parties I encourage guys to spend a night out without fucking and having amazing sex in other ways.  There is more to great sex then a cock.  Bi wives get along without one just nicely when they play.  Guys can learn from the bi-wives when they want to play without a cock.

I hope this is some POSITIVE feedback. Best of wishes.  If you are in Toronto, arrange to go to a swinger club and ask for someone to introduce you while you are there.  You will find those in the lifestyle are always willing to take someone new under their wing and introduce them to others.  This is why we rely on the regulars.  When you register, just tell them it is your first time and you need help to feel comfortable.  Those in the lifestyle will look after you.

Sure, you may not have sex on your first few times, but you will meet fantastic people and start having amazing sex and learning so much.  Again, I hope this is positive feedback.

I've been hosting on-premise bi-swinger parties for 12 years in London.  It is cool seeing people learning new things over that time.  Never ask a lady to do something you will not do yourself.  Hence the parties are bi.  If you expect a blowjob, then learn how to give a blowjob.    Sex is about having fun.  Ideal ice-breaker - ask a lady to teach you how to give a blowjob.  This is why swinger events are an amazing place to learn have fun.

Dude,

Gotta agree with biguy61 - you have little info and the only pic of you is of your dick.

You also state "I need to be sucked and fucked hard...and I love to fuck hard...any ladies interested please send me an e-mail."... Man, this smacks of desperation.

Add some g-rated pics of you, change your profile to include more info and cut down on the need for sex. Manscaping would be a wicked thought too.

You also have to realize that single guys are relegated to being ignored (for the most part) and that it's part of the lifestyle. Most couples want unicorns (single girls) or other couples. Most unicorns want couples, then maybe single guys.

To be honest, you may have better luck if you try Ashley Madison.

Okay made some changes please provide me with your feed back

Much better if I could make a suggestion, the one of you with the cup turn it so your standing straight, and its a great move but you should have at least one pic of your hardware for us bi guys lol. The high school pic isn't needed though, we all looked like dorks back then. Your on the right track now mix them up with pics of you doing stuff you enjoy holding a pet if you have one, and throw in a full body shot of yoruself naked.

You should still work on your written portion abit, lets say everyone here wants to fuck hard, but most women want to be seduced and feel wanted and desired just because its all about sex doesn't mean it can't have a romantic tone to it and "fuck me hard" isn't very romantic, unless shes already riding you.

For a woman sex begins in their brains so you have to attract her by showing some tact and intelligence first.. A good written profile is a great way to start that.