One must make sure the equipemnt works!!! Damn before hand.  One never likes that kinda surprise after your naked and in bed!!!  So it is better to rev that engine without actually starting it.  Nothing makes a naked lady more  then that.  So don't lie!!!! When swinging be honest.  After all ladies if your man can't get it up what makes yas think us other ladies want it?

I knew a girl up here whom had been with ten men in swinging situations and only one could "get it up" with her while she stood over him as she did with the rest and said " You Better Be Able To Get It Up " " Cummon Lets See The Wood" . It takes two to raise the flag and only one to scare it away

I did not personally spend any time between the sheets with this lady as I dont not want to be scrutinized by her and judged on how fast or weather or not I could get it up fast enough or sustain an erection long enough to meet her expectations .

I'm no expert , but i believe it's called performance anxiety. I most cases it usually happens to some of us the first time we experience a different situation than what we are usually used to. ( with our own spouses). Give us some time and patience and understanding and  help us out with the problem and you will see a fantastic ending to that special evening.

If it doesn't work the first time, then the next time it will....hopefully....lol....Good Luck to all men who have or want to experience this lifestyle.

And ladies, please be Patience's and understanding with this problem..it'll work it just might be a little shy at first..

This is proof in the pudding that the head on a males shoulder can over power the head between his legs..

..RISE UP YOUNG LAD ......

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I had a Jamaican friend once give me a bottle of this stuff without telling me the effects of what it did.  Let me tell you the issues I had when I drank this ~ I was ROCK HARD for 5 hours and God was I ever one Horny S.O.B.

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Maybe this share will help some Limp Bizkits rise to the occassion.

Mama Juana is a drink from the Dominican Republic that is concocted by allowing rum, red wine, and honey to soak in a bottle with tree bark and herbs[1]. The taste is quite similar to port wine and the color is a deep red. It is seen and advertised as an aphrodisiac, with many natives of the Dominican Republic claiming that the drink has similar effects to Viagra. Women have also claimed that Mama Juana enhances sexual desire.

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Basically, Mama Juana is a mixture of bark and herbs left to soak in rum (most often dark rum but the use of white rum is not uncommon), red wine and honey. The solid ingredients (local leaves, sticks and roots, GINGER ROOT WORKS BEST!!! (Cut into disk-like pieces) vary from region to region but usually include some of the following:

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* Anamú (Petiveria alliacea)

* Bohuco (Cissus verticillata)

* Basil

* Canelilla (Cinnamodendron ekmanii)

* Caro

* Marabeli

* Clavo Dulce

* Maguey (Agave spp.) leaves

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In addition to the above standard recipe, it is common for individuals to add other ingredients such as cinnamon, raisins, molasses, and lemon or lime juice. The concoction is usually kept at room temperature and served in a shot glass. As with many other alcoholic drinks the longer the maker lets it sit the better it tastes.

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Recipes for what to do with this concoction vary a bit, but common advice from Dominicans is to first remove the bitterness from the elements above by soaking in red wine for a week or so, turning every once in a while, then throwing the wine out. Then, fill the bottle of soaked bark/herbs with 1/4 honey and 3/4 dark rum, possibly adding vanilla, ginger or cinnamon sticks if you like those flavors. After a few days, drink, then repeat the honey/rum mixture until the flavor of the bark/herbs disappears. Some say you can do this 15 to 20 times, while others say a single concoction of bark/herbs can be used for years.

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**There is also some sort of Ginseng Soup out there that I know works!  I was once offered some while working with a group of oriental women at a workplace.  What joys they had while I worked away looking like I was ready for a Joust competition at Medieval Times!  (I never got that Recipe ~ But I'll never forget the effects of it!)

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Thanks Jay for that advice....Make sure you keep that recipe for when you reach your mid 40's and over.....lol we'll see if it works when your that age.....Have a great day.

Since a minimum of 30% of the benefits from anything (pills, tonic -even surgery) is placebo effect, if someone gave you a glass of water but said it contained a taste-free erection causing chemical, unless you had true ED brought on by severe diabetes or such, one third of men would get the best erection they've ever had!   

The more you think it's going to work, the higher the percent the placebo effect will be and can often go over 50%.  Especially if it "works" the first time. 

Performance anxiety in a new situation is a real potential risk - as is Brewer's Droop if you drink too much to quell your nervousness.  Levitra's $15.  Why take chances?  For the cost of a mediocre bottle of wine you not only guarantee wood but over and over wood !

i have a bit of similar problem, getting wood is no problem! I just think and bang its there the problem is getting it to go , i mean i have been with multipull women at the same time and for hours worked the thing till im sweatting rivers of sweat and need a drink break and damn you think i could blow a load no such luck, i have to totally relax and there she blows, some women get upset that i can't blow and think there is a problem with them . no there is no problem we are just not all built the exact same way and that includes performance. any ways to yous that want wood patience and to yous that need to get up , just relax and go to the kinky speacial place and bang there it is. enjoy

Levitra is $15?  Where?!! The last I had heard was that a 4 pack of that stuff was close to $100.

We have been in those situations where the male had performance anxiety or worse had the brewers droop.  But they made up for their shortcomings by being exquisitely oral

There is SOOO much pressure on a man to get it up and sometimes it can be impossible...especially when you have been up half the night dancing, drinking etc...remember gentlemen...you do have hands and a tongue..They will always be there for you....!!

Being a diabetic I know what it feels like not able to get it up, when this happens all us guys need is a little understanding and patience from the ladies. Those little blue or yellow pills do work but not always and yes they are expensive. Like what someone said we all have 2 hands with many fingers and a tongue plus not to mention all the toys that are available that can be used.

I have had times that i have thought it was me and i wasnt much of a turn on or i am saying or doing the wrong things.... It took a few people to tell me it wasnt me and that it just happens they seamed to be turned on but i guess at times its hard to tell ( i guess i often see a hard cock as being a indicator that im doing something right) ... I have had times where my nipples never got hard lol ,,, but hey it doesnt mean im less turned on. I know if i was expected to have something showing that indicated if i was horny or not i may have troubles too ,,, i often get fairly nervouse when with somone new ( im just trying to put myself in a guys shoes ) that could be alot of "pressure" to show your "inDICKtator" ( sorry i had to add some humor lol) i think it happens more then people wana admit.

Well guys should relax more and enjoy things as it comes, There are some guys that do get hard right away and there humping a leg to hurry and get it done right away tring to get into any hole that is exposed ... It has its moments too! ...

But really i dont think guys should feel so bad, dont try and feel you need to "out do" someone else or to be The Best" and all that. Just have fun with things and have the right personality and maybe it will give you an opertunity to try new things... there is much more to sex then trying to get the peg into the hole lol .... Plus !!! FOREPLAY is so so incredibly HOT ! ... and if you really wana get kinky we can aways use Duct Tape and a Popcycle Stick !!!! ( lol im kidding! ........... or am I ???  lol ,,, sorry ... humor coming out again)  I know it might not be something a guy would like to laugh about but gee I really dont think they should feel all bad about it.

OH PS ... dont use that numbing cream stuff to make you last longer .... it makes my tounge feel funny lol

Good Luck ! xxoo 

Ok , I got a E-Mail from someone all mad at me after i posted my comment on this subject ,,,, Really i did not set out to offend anyone and i dont think i did ,, So sorry if i offended anyone in any way ,,,, anyone that knows me knows that that just aint my style to offend people

Laughin @ BeerSuckingPig Is that what I was missin! So do i serve that warm, or right out of the bottle ... or just try and hold it in my mouth for them?

Can't GET IT UP?...No problem...just don't GIVE UP!!....Now, THAT would be a problem....lol...

I host monthly bi-swinger parties.  When I requested that a guest NOT use his cock for an evening, he did not return.  To him it was all about wham bam thank you man and next !!!!  He did not socialize, give oral, ginger, suck, feel, play or anything.  To him, the cock was everything.

A guy can have amazing orgasms with a linp cock and without cumming.  Just look for the pre-cum on a guy.  Ladies can push a guy to the limits and he does not have to cum to have an orgasm.

Same for the ladies.  The can have multiple orgasms without your cock.  Besides, why not share with the other guys and pleasure her in other ways at the same time?