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Creemlicker

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Jul 21, 2010 18:32    Quote
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I wonder how many people do not get a reply back from a message sent another memeber.

It gets frusterating after sending out a msg and not getting anything back

I would be nice to hear even just a thank you but no thanks instad of just hanging

cookietc

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Jul 21, 2010 21:14    Quote
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lol i get it all the time

or its the endless greeting but then they dont say anything to you

Hellion

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Jul 21, 2010 23:05    Quote
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Its the nature of the beast on sites like this.  There are a lot of people who are just looking and have no intention of ever meeting and/or corresponding.  Especially for single men, it takes about 10 messages before you will get one back, and then it takes about 4 or 5 of those before you will ever get a meet.

Ibinlickin

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Jul 23, 2010 08:57    Quote
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Like Hellion said

"its the nature of the beast"

So many people on these sites are just curious etc plus there is always the fair share of guys posing as cpls just to get pics etc.

I do agree it would be nice to hear something back even a friendly "F off not interested" LOL

I also think some people forget common manners when behind a keyboard.

I have been doing this for so long and on so many sites i guess i am used to it

Its really pleasently suprising when someone does send back a reply

Ibin

Hard_Worker

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Jul 23, 2010 10:36    Quote
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I would tend to agree lickin....I go one step further in the thinking, that if they dont wish to respond assuming something which may or may not be true, then they do not have in my book, respect for others etc even though online.  I use the word assume as most due assume that I am single, and looking to picture pull, am married, or for that fact not even real,  etc etc etc.  One should always answer in a polite way no matter what.  I always say that if say 2 dont hit it off, whos to say that they dont have friends, relatives etc that you would hit it off with.

The other issue I tend to get is people assuming again if I speak from my heart, I am being judgemental, or bad mouthing.  Well the other thing which happens way too often is not the so called adults being adults and dealing with it.  First thing done when something said is they complain and get that person banned...just not right.  Be an adult about it, and if you can not handle the response etc, then block them. 

Its really sad in general when adults can no just be adults for any reason.  I would also agree if one does get a response then "SURPRISE"