This site was suggested to us from another couple who enjoys the swinging lifestyle - so upon their suggestion we decided to check it out.  Let me tell you..thus far we are sooo happy to have been told about it!

 

Not being too familiar with the swinging lifestyle, we are hoping that we can be given some pointers or suggestions.

 

Being in the small northern city of Sudbury, we have realized that there are not that many swinger lifestyles options readily availiable or maybe we just haven't tapped into that part of the lifestyle.

 

If anyone is familiar with the area and know of some fun venues we can explore, please do let us know..! thnxs

 Welcome to the site! Sexy profile you have there, if we may say so ;) We arent from Sudbury so cant give advice on locations etc but certainly would share our amateur insight into the lifestyle and this site. Most importantly, we have boundaries that we've discussed ahead of time, we know each other's limits and are prepared to uphold those independently and together. You define your boundaries and commit to each other in it... you will enjoy the lifestyle more knowing you are united in passion than to have any problems develop because communication wasn't there. The way we look at it, we come first and always will. If either of us is uncomfortable, we do not proceed further. For us personally, the lifestyle isn't something we indulge consistently. We find what works for us is a few encounters and experiences then take a break to focus on our real life stuff and just being 'us'. As for this site... we are HUGE fans. First, its really helped her come out of her shell. In the past, she has been the shy one and under-appreciated... but after seeing the response from this site, its reinforced what he's said all along that she's a beautiful woman who should be proud of who she is. Thanks everyone! ;) We have also met some great people on here... There have been a few couples we've met and enjoyed their company immensely. Some singles we've met as well and have found the guys and ladies to be great. We do typically pre-screen people through messages or chat, start to build a friendship, even if it is only with benefits ;) We like to get to know someone on this site first because we'd prefer there to be a sense of connection or chemistry when we play, you know? Sure this site has some problems, but all sites of this nature have their risks and flaws in some way. We don't really care about flaws on the website itself, its free so why complain right? The risks and flaws we find are related to individuals and their conduct. We find its just best to be upfront and honest. If there's no interest, we'll say so and hope its respected. If there is interest but we're not available, we'll say so. To sum up this long winded column (hee hee), be true to yourselves first and then enjoy the risks and rewards of this site and the lifestyle... it's a wonderful experience ;)

 K, one little flaw of the website, new browser doesnt let me put proper paragraph breaks... oops! oh well, free! ha ha

Thank you soooo much for the advice...we truly do appreciate it!

 

We agree with almost everything you have said in your post...and both my hubby and I have defined our boundaries..be it personally or as a couple..and I think keeping an open and honest communication with each other is the big key to our sucess and fun in this lifestyle...

 

Again ...Thank you ....

 

xoxo