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Why all 'ample/cuddly/extra pounds'?

 
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Pleasure4all

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Jan 10, 2012 06:29    Quote
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I have found an extraordinary percentage of 'larger' women on here. Thats cool - and kudos to every body type. There must, however, be those among us who are more on the slender/fit side AND who prefer partners of similar stature. It has been frustrating in my search for likeminded and likebodied playmates. Anyone else feeling the same?

Boss_and_Baby

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Jan 10, 2012 07:27    Quote
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We agree. We are very active and fit and like to find the same, but it isn't very common on here. Nothing against people who are overweight, but we just don't find them attractive.

 

We all have our preferences and we prefer people who are in good shape. We also find it annoying that people get defensive over comments like this, as if we aren't entitled to have an opinion on body type preference.

curiouscpl420

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Jan 10, 2012 08:48    Quote
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Use the search function and select only the body type that you want. There are many other sites to try as well, there may be more fit people on those sites, it's always good to branch out. I know it can be frustrating to not be able to find exactly what you're looking for, keep in mind, the majority of the people in the lifestyle are people that fall into the average to cuddly range. Best of luck in your searches :)
Austin1959

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Jan 10, 2012 09:39    Quote
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Interesting thread.  I have found with the swinger events I run in London that Falling in love is never a good idea with guests.  Great sex has nothing to do with age or sex. One guest is 60 and leads a fantastic sex life.  The same goes for NO SINLGE MEN ....  sounds like discrimination.  Just like saying MUST BE ON YOUR 4th MARRIAGE.  Labels should not  apply to swingers.  We are not at play because of looks.  May as well say no Chinese or Baptists allowed.  Labels.

 

It is called friendship.  Personally, there should be a category - "enjoy hugs", "enjoy laughter during sex".  Those qualities are more important then looks.  Falling in love during a swinger party is not the intent.  Friendship and great sex is.

Boss_and_Baby

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Jan 10, 2012 12:03    Quote
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 Not sure this thread said anything regarding "falling in love.' It has to do with personal preference. People have different tastes and it is perfectly normal to have types that you are and are not attracted to. No one has to branch out or expand their preferences because it is THEIR preference and what THEY are attracted to.
swocple

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Jan 10, 2012 17:55    Quote
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Think your being a little too general in your comments there are all types on this site , you would probably be better going to Cafe Desire they seem to have a younger membership which is probably more what you are looking for
couplelkn4fun

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Jan 10, 2012 19:39    Quote
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I am a bigger women and although I would usually be more comfortable with people of my size I dont discriminate against the ones who are smaller than I. Friends come in all shapes and sizes. I can understand where you are coming from but to start a thread bringing up the fact that this site doesnt have the "fit and athletic" type you are looking for seems kind of pointless. Maybe you should look into other websites that have what you are looking for.... for example cafedesire as swocpl mentioned.