It doesn't matter whether your first swing experience is at home, a swing club or party. You will experience many changes in the your relationship and your outlook on sex.

• Many men will tell you that strip clubs do not appeal to them the way they did in the past, unless of course they are headed to the strip club with there spouse or another couple.

There is a big difference to a performer dancing for her paycheck and sexually active females playing with you for the enjoyment of showing off or having sex.

• Sex is never the same way at home again.

You become more attentive and aware of each others needs.

The reason is simple, all the new experiences change the way you perform with your partner and the excitement and the recalling of sexual encounters while having sex brings the enjoyment of sex much higher for both of you.

Previous thoughts of "How do I compete with the other men or ladies?"

Will change to:

When is the next party?

What will I wear to show myself off?

I hope some of the new couples we met will have sex with us at the next party

Almost every couple has concerns about competing with others before they join the swinging scene

Almost every couple has absolutely no concerns about competing after they have attended a swing club or a swing party.

Most couples will feel very comfortable with themselves after seeing how normal and comfortable other couples are around them.