Too many new couples put restrictions on themselves about matching up with a couple that are the same age as themselves. Over time you will discover that age is not a critical factor in swinging.

Looking for sex with couples your own age?

How would you feel if the difference in age were:

5 years

10 years

15 years

20 years

or 25+ years

How would you feel having sex with couples your own age

But a couple beside you was the same ages as your kids?

Many new couples to the lifestyle are very focused on finding a couple their own age and would feel very uncomfortable seeing much younger couples or much older couples playing in the same room.

Many couples feel comfortable playing with a younger male or female, but many younger couples would feel uncomfortable playing with someone much older.

Couples who are very open and sexually experimental in swinging find that age is not a critical factor in sexual relations.

• But attitude and sex appeal are!

• Some people prefer older men and women for maturity and sexual play.
• Some people prefer a much younger man or woman for excitement or virility.
• Some younger swingers will only play at clubs specializing in younger couples.
• Older couples do the same with their choice in clubs.

You have to admit that there are some couples your own age you would not give the time of day to.

If you feel a sexual attraction to an individual because of looks, attitude, deportment, sex appeal or just gut feeling that it is erotic and sexy, trust your feelings and experiment. Remember that the feeling must be mutual from both new partners, regardless of age.

You will get a feeling or signs that someone likes or wants your horny body, if the feeling is mutual, let them know!

Some clubs are founded by a young couple and have restrictions on young couples only being admitted as members. Some of these clubs are under 30 and others under 40 only. Many of these clubs have problems with making exceptions for couples where one partner is 24 and their partner is 31. What happens when the club owners turn 31 or 41?

It is important for couples who feel very strongly about age to have a club where they can feel comfortable playing in. It is truly their loss in not matching up with thousands of other horny partners that would have made them feel great.

Many ladies that have given child birth are very sensitive to the idea of young couples playing in the lifestyle. With children at home, many ladies feel that playing in the lifestyle is out of place or childish.

Remember that the swinging lifestyle is not for everyone and some people discuss the subject for years before taking the first steps into it.

Never rush into anything you are not sure of or feel uncomfortable about. More and more couples are joining the lifestyle that have many years difference between each other.

Lifestyle couples are very accepting of age differences between couples.

Many relationships today have age differences of 10, 20 or more years between partners.

Sometimes these couples feel uncomfortable at their work office parties or get-togethers with family, because too many people are quick to judge them.

In the swinging lifestyle, these differences between couples are celebrated, not frowned upon.

If you and your partner have a big difference in age, you will truly enjoy how open the lifestyle will be with both of you.

When you see an ad for sexy couple, early 30's looking for the same. These couples don't realize that some couples in their 20's or 35 plus might not answer the add.

If you place ads, at least keep open the idea of playing with couples within a wider age group. You will be very surprised how many younger and older couples find that age is not the most important factor in matching up with a new couple for sexual play.

Couples, who are in search of the perfect match, will be looking for a long, long time.

• It is very hard in life to find two people who match well with each other.
  • Try and find four that match!
• When you put many horny couples in the same room together, sexual attraction is the driving force between couples matching up, not their age.

At swing clubs, most couples just match up with a partner that they find sexually attractive. Many couples will match up with two different partners from two different couples and go play in one of the bedrooms as a foursome. Each partner find a matching partner and go play in foursomes.

Over the course of the evening, couples will match up with one or many different partners and you will find that some of your partners were actually a couple.

This is your opportunity to get the couples names and info for future get-togethers.