It would be advisable to have your sexual partner read this page first!

If your partner has asked you to read this page, they are very secure about your relationship together and are asking you to consider the idea of sexual experimentation in a lifestyle that could enhance your relationship and sex life and possibly fulfill some or all of the sexual fantasies both of you may have been talking about from time to time.

We believe that swinging is where fantasy ends and reality begins, your only limitation is your imagination.

Please take the time to read this entire page. Read and absorb the information offered here with an open mind before you pass judgement on your partners idea, they are sincere in wanting the two of you together as a couple to have more fun with sex than you thought possible.

• The two of you are very sexually active with each other, possibly having sex four or five times a week.

If you are not sexually active with each other, the swinging lifestyle is not for you.

• Many couples try to fix a marriage by trying this lifestyle with terrible results.

Many happy couples can enhance their sex in the swinging lifestyle.

In most cases the male partner asks the female partner to consider trying the swingers lifestyle. Rarely it is the other way around.

Some partners are asking for selfish reasons, but in most cases your partner wants the both of you to try something extremely daring sexually at first but which could also possibly lead to a lot of fun for both you and your partner. Even if your partners' reasons were selfish, you now have an opportunity to have all of your sexual fantasies fulfilled.

In many cases the person who is reluctant in pursuing swinging usually enjoys the adventure more than the person who did the asking.

• Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

In the swinging lifestyle, you do not have to share your partner.

Many couples enter the swinging lifestyle by:

• Placing Ads
• Joining Erotic Social Clubs
• Attending Private Parties
• And Many Other Events And Clubs.

One of the most erotic and sexually stimulating experiences that both of you could have in the swinging lifestyle is with other couples that have similar interests in sex that both of you have.

Many couples are surprised to find other couples with the same fantasies or likes and dislikes about sex. The two of you will have to discuss your sexual fantasies and seriously consider if you would like to have those fantasies become a reality.

Some couples are only looking for a third person to join them, other couples are looking for couples.

Many women in the swinging lifestyle are bi and there are many couples looking to experiment in this area. Your partner has a fantasy, in most cases that's why you have been asked to read this page. If you do not know what that fantasy may be, it's time to find out.

Your partner must realize that if they have a fantasy they would like to see fulfilled your fantasies are just as important and they are offering you an opportunity to tell them about your fantasy. If they already know what your fantasies are, they are now willing to help you get what you want.

Meeting other swing couples or joining a swing club will give both of you many opportunities to fulfill both of your sexual fantasies no matter how strange unattainable you think your fantasies are.

It can't emphasized enough that everyone's fantasies are different.

Some people fantasize about:

• Voyeurism
• Swapping Partners
• Fetishes
• Exhibitionism
• Nudity
• Dressing Sexy
• Flirting
• and many more.

What is important at this point is to get informed, do your homework and take a small step into the lifestyle to see what it is all about. You will be pleasantly surprised at the number of couples involved in the lifestyle and how sensitive and friendly they are to new couples joining or trying the lifestyle for the first time.

Actually turning a fantasy into reality is much harder than most people think. If you have already asked your neighbours or friends to help you fulfill a sexual fantasy, you will know the difficulties we are referring to.

Once you meet active swingers your sexual fantasies are much easier to plan with no embarrassment to friends, family and your neighbors. All swingers respect your privacy, because they expect the same privacy from both of you in return.

Almost all couples involved in swinging are looking for sexual excitement not love.

If your partner lets you:

• talk to people
• dance with people
• work with people
• eat with people
• go to the gym with people
• join clubs with people
  • with all these things then why can't you play with or have sex with them?

A partnership is more than just sex. There must be a strong bond between both of you in your relationship. Most swingers play as a team and enjoy the lifestyle immensely knowing their partner is having a great time.

Your partner is very open minded about sex and believes you are as well. You must be very open about sex in order to avoid jealousy. Jealousy can be a terrible weapon or an excellent tool to get your partner hot for you.

Falling in love or searching for a replacement partner is the furthest thing from swingers minds.

Swinging is very similar to taking vacations together, fond memories of couples you met or played with or private parties that were better than the adults videos you used to rent. When you experience these new sensations together, they become memories that will last a lifetime.

Every persons touch and sexual play is different. Watching your partner play or have an orgasm with a new partner or watching your partner making a new partner have an orgasm is very erotic. You will learn a great deal about each other and learn many new ways to play with or turn on your partner.

Your partner was probably scared to ask you directly about considering this lifestyle. Anything new or unknown is scary the first time around. You are probably scared yourself about being asked to consider this proposal. In some cases you might be downright mad!

Most people are scared or concerned for many good reasons such as:

• diseases
• privacy issues
• losing their partner if you say no
• and many others.
  • If you feel uncomfortable, don't be afraid to say no.
    • This lifestyle is not for everyone.

Don't be afraid to ask your partner about their fears, the more informed both of you are about the swinging lifestyle, the better you will be able to determine if this erotic adventure is for both of you or not.

Swingers who have gone before you have all gone through the difficult process of approaching each other about joining the swinging lifestyle. It's almost like asking you out on a date for the first time again. Some people are very at ease about asking and many find it very difficult.

If you or your partner have to get drunk to have sex or talk openly to each other, this is a warning sign of difficult times ahead if you get involved in swinging.

Most swingers drink very little or not at all to have a good time.