Most lifestyle couples we know have experimented with some form of Bondage.

• Most swingers do it for sexual pleasure, not pain.

Many groups today now refer to a term called Erotic Power Exchange (EPE)

• Erotic power exchange is any situation where adult partners, of their own free will and choice, actively and willfully incorporate the power element in their lovemaking (and usually for a great deal in their relationship).

Erotic power exchange is best known as either BDSM, S&M, D&S or sadomasochism, but these terms are all too limited, incorrect and too often confused with stereotypes and mental illnesses, which is why many lifestyle groups like to call it Erotic Power Exchange (EPE).

Erotic power exchange can take any shape or form within a relationship.

From little things like blindfolding a partner when making love to anything like 24 hours a day, 7 days a week dedication.

The shape and form it takes totally depends upon the fantasies, situation and boundaries of the partners involved.

As long as it is informed consensual, safe, sane and voluntary it is called erotic power exchange.

• If any or all of these four elements are missing, it is called abuse!

Are you willing to be totally submissive to the DOM or Master?

• You might be commanded to be the Sex Toy of the party!

You must know your playmates limits!

• Do you dare give your partner this much control?

Many people love being held down firmly while making love, give it a try.

Being blindfolded and partially restrained can be lots of fun for beginners.

Try and find your partner among 10 different cocks.

Many people love to play the submissive role in sexual play.

• Do you like being told what to do and how to do it?
  • It can be very erotic to have a totally new partner telling you to do all the naughty stuff!
  • Someone in total control can be a Mistress (lady) or Master (man).

Have fun with your fantasies and take charge of a group of men slaves!

• Would you let a total stranger use you for a day?
  • All the sexual things you might be told to do to her and her friends!

When your friends ask you if you are free for the weekend, tell the truth!

• "Sorry, I'm all tied up for this weekend!"
  • Think about this statement, the next time someone tells it to you!?