Is everyone a knock out with a great body and good looks?

People in the lifestyle come in all shapes, sizes and colours. The majority of them are very beautiful people (from within), from all walks of life and a variety of ages. Most couples are made up of average people you would meet at your local store or theatre.

Are People in the swinging lifestyle are interested in sex only and not looking for friendship?

The majority of the people in the swinging lifestyle are very much interested in friendship first and then sex (or partying).

There are a large variety of people in the lifestyle and they all have their own view on the way they see swinging in their life. We all have to determine for ourselves what swinging means to us. You will find that the people in this lifestyle are warm, friendly and caring people who love the freedom that comes with it.

At swing clubs do we have to remove our clothes at the door?

Most clubs are casual dress, with clothing optional rules in different areas of the club. They all vary somewhat and you should get the details on it from each club. A lot of the ladies in the adult clubs will wear sexy, shear clothing or lingerie. Some will bring a few changes of clothes with them. Some couples have robes to put on after they have visited the hot tub or just wear a towel (again different clubs have different rules). You can stay as you arrive, change or disrobe whatever is comfortable for you and allowed. Be sure you ask what the rules are at each club. Every club is different.

Once we have committed to meet with someone who is in the lifestyle are we obligated to have sex with them?

Meeting or spending time with others is simply that, getting to know each other. Once you get acquainted you can decide if you would like to party with them and they can decide if they want to party with you.

• Everyone has the option to say yes or no.
• Never assume just because you hit it off socially that automatically means you will have sex.

Think about it, you must have friends that you really enjoy being around socially, but would not want to have sex with. Everyone involved needs to be comfortable with the situation. We never recommend meeting people through ads. It is much safer to meet couples at adult swing clubs first.

At a swing club is anyone up for grabs. Can just anyone touch us?

No one has the right to walk up and take any liberties with anyone else without the approval of that person. Even if there is a lady/gentleman standing naked in front of you, without her/his approval you do not touch. No means No, No Exception!! It is very important that you understand this rule, it is the golden rule in swinging.

At a swing club are we expected to have sex?

Everyone moves at their own pace.

People get into the lifestyle for different interests.

• Some people like to just watch others.
• Some like to be watched.
• Some want to get together with other couples, or singles.
• There are others who just like the relaxed atmosphere of an adult club and the freedom to enjoy themselves without inhibitions.

Most swing clubs do not permit sexual intercourse at their club, you must do it OFF Premise! Only clubs that permit full sexual contact and intercourse are called ON Premise clubs. You are never expected to have sex at either type of club, theses choices are always yours to make.

At a swing club is it a big orgy with mattresses all over the floor?

Most on-premise clubs have a variety of activities.

The clubs vary in the activities such as:

• Dancing
• Hot Tubs
• Swimming Pools
• Saunas
• Pool Tables
• Adult Films
• Weekly Themes and Contests
• BYOB Bar
• Buffet
• Overnight Accommodations
• And of Course Open and Closed Party Areas.

Always ask before attending a new club. It is very important you understand the types of swing clubs available in your area.

At a swing club if we decide to get active and have sex, we are expected to perform oral and anal sex?

Anal sex is rare at most clubs, but is enjoyed by many in private. Rarely do you see anyone forcing a consenting sex partner to do anything they feel uncomfortable about. Most on-premise swing clubs have special events for new swingers or 1st timers.

All new couples to swinging are treated with tenderness and understanding. Experienced swingers have all been there themselves and do not want to scare away any new potential swingers to the lifestyle.

Do swingers use condoms? We are concerned about STD's?

Many couples are surprised to find out that most swingers do use condoms on all occasions. There are a number of men and women that do not like condoms and prefer not to use them, but if asked they will use them without hesitation.

Most swingers are made up of married couples, middle to high income, highly educated, have children and their hygiene practices are better than the average population. Most sexually transmitted diseases are curable today and are rarely found among the swinging community.

Most couples are very surprised to find out that STD's are rare among swingers. In 7+ years of swinging we have never known or heard of any person in the swinging community with an STD or AIDS.