Most singles are on the outside and looking in.

Singles rarely put themselves in the shoes of a couple who have been together for a number of years, sexually experimenting and sharing this sexuality as a team.

If you are single and reading this page, we want to put you in our shoes and give you a blunt reality check.

Prostitution is a trade that has been successful since the dawn of time, primarily due to the fact that most men would rather pay for what they want instead of sharing their sexuality in an equal relationship with a woman.

Sexuality in swinging is a give and take relationship between committed partners that believe in a 50/50 arrangement.

Most singles will offer 10% in exchange for taking 90%.

There are successful singles in swinging, primarily they are single women, but approximately 1% of all single males that want to get involved in the swinging lifestyle are truly successful in participating.

If you are a single male and wish to be in this 1%, read on.

Couples who have been attached to the same partner for some time are more open and experimental in their sexual relationship than trying to explain all the thousands of feelings that couples go through to singles.

Couples want safety and privacy!

Couples are in the Lifestyle for the enjoyment of their sexuality as a team sport.

Many singles have been in rocky or unstable relationships or are unable to find a sexual partner for many different reasons that are too long to list here.

Many married men try to enter the lifestyle as a single with terrible results to their own marriage, not to mention the damage they cause with other swing couples.

Couples enjoy a special safety when swinging with other committed couples.

All couples value their privacy in their daily lives, but even more so in the swinging lifestyle.

There are many feelings that both partners will go through as they enter and get adjusted to sharing their partner with new sexual playmates.

For many couples, there is a great deal of fear and nerves when attending an adult swing club or party for the first time.

It can take a great deal of time for some couples to feel open about their sexuality in front of other sexually active couples.

When couples see a single male with his "Let's Fuck" attitude, you are history!

When couples play in the lifestyle, they are sharing each other.

Most couples have the attitude that we are sharing our partner, who did you bring with you to share?

Singles must take a serious look at what couples are going through and have an understanding of the human condition of jealousy etc.

If you thought that swing parties are just one big orgy, you are uninformed!

Happy swinging!