Politely tell them, that you are not interested. You Never have to give a reason why. It is very rude to ask any couple why they are not interested. People's feelings will always be hurt, no mater how you tell the reason. If a couple are insistent that they know the reason you are turning them do...Read more

Do you get jealous if your partner is looking at the opposite sex? If you do, how do you think you will handle seeing your partner have intercourse or play sexually with a new partner? For the most part, jealousy is very healthy, but too much of it can be a huge problem in the swinging lifestyl...Read more

Too many new couples put restrictions on themselves about matching up with a couple that are the same age as themselves. Over time you will discover that age is not a critical factor in swinging. Looking for sex with couples your own age? How would you feel if the difference in age were: 5 ye...Read more

Many singles or couples will fantasize about playing sexually with more than one partner or sharing their partner with others. Sexual play or fantasies usually increase over time in the bedroom or outside the bedroom. Adult movies and fantasies can heighten the excitement of trying something or s...Read more

This is the most important step to take before attending any club, party or meeting with other couples or singles. Both of you must discuss and set ground rules that both of you must agree on before you attend your first club or party, so that there will be no misunderstandings during or after yo...Read more